Enters Mrs Raina…
Me: Welcome to interview with Aditya!
“It’s my pleasure”
Me: “That’s your highness”
“Okay, let’s dive into it.”
“HERE WE GO!”
Creative | Passionate | Dreamer | Transformational | Empowering and LIVE LIFE
It’s simple and decent. Generally, it’s Dal, Roti Sabji, Salad Raita and Fruits.
“STOP BEING AFRAID OF WHAT COULD GO WRONG AND START GETTING EXCITED ABOUT WHAT’S GOING TO GO RIGHT.”
Be grateful for what you have, and never let anyone judge you anyhow.
“Be happy and find happiness and gratitude in whatever little things you do on a consistent basis.”
Me: Absolutely. There are two ways to live life. 1. Though everything is a miracle. 2. Though nothing is a miracle. The choice is always onto us. We can choose to enjoy everything or nothing.”
- My Dad & Mom – successful in making me who I am today, because if it weren’t for them – I wouldn’t be what I’m proud to be today.
- My husband & child for being a true guide, mentor and believer in all ways of support helping me to achieve my dream.
- People around me -who teach me every day some learnings I grow from each day!
2. Simon SINEK
YOU CAN ACHIEVE whatever you WANT if you just follow 3P principle…
- PLAN it wisely
- PRIORITISE it productively &
- (have) PATIENCE, until you get it!
How does your morning Ritual look like? What do the first 60 minutes of your day look like?
Relaxed and calm! I walk/jog every morning or just sit outside my balcony and sip a cup of tea and cool breeze!
Hard Work, focus and enjoyment is important in whatever you do! Else it’s not worth a lot of sacrifices Buddy!
What do you wish you had known about your domain or your area of expertise, 20 years ago? And how would it had saved your resources?
Humm… Training if I knew it’s an area I love could have mastered psychology and mind patterns, behavioural patterns! Now it’s working from scratch cause I am HARDCORE IT professional and need to learn and understand people and their challenges to help in upliftment!
What topic would you speak about if you were asked to give a TED talk on something outside of your main area of expertise?
My expertise is TRAINING AND only training… I have become a Women empowerment trainer cause the ladies have driven me to it but I want to be BREAKTHROUGH COACH
If I have to give a TED talk I would be -THAT FIRST STEP OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE CAN TAKE YOU TO YOUR DREAMS! DETERMINE TO REACH THE TOP!!!(on how a simple girl coming from a background where no one had done beyond a degree ,never left her home and area …went to study Engineering and was the first to step out to be a engineer in her family…first to travel abroad …never travelled alone in bus/train but first to travel alone for an international study without a mobile phone TOOK the FIRST STEP OUT OF HER Comfort Zone to achieve BIG !
What obsessions do you explore on the evenings or weekends?
Zumba, Painting, singing, Dancing, movies, playing football/cricket with my boy, baking and cooking with MUSIC.
Can you share some experiences of your life that you think have played a significant role in how you’re today?
“The problem with me has always been only 1 thing!!! DO you want to know what????”
“Yes, if we can learn something significant from it.”
“Asking too Many questions… Many times you don’t know why you do certain things but the Belief, The action and confidence pushes you to that SINGLE DESTINATION which means SUCCESS to you but may not be your End! Cause every failure /success is a learning or stepping stone to another learning of the Growth stage! Each stage of my life has motivated me to Learn more and more.Life never stops teaching… The KEY thing is to LEARN TO SAY ‘NO’ TO THE GOOD ONLY THEN YOU CAN SAY ‘YES’ TO THE BEST!”
Opportunities always lie in the place where complaints are… Learn from your competitors but never Copy…Copy and you will DIE!! You will always carve the best journey for urself and others only and only if U BELIEVE IN URSELF then THE WORLD WILL BELIEVE IN U!
I am beautiful, fun loving individual and have always been and will continue being one! I will never change my existence and upbringing But if it’s concerning my professional work is concerned.I believe very strongly that for each of us… God has a plan, A purpose a meaning to our existence sooner or later ..we do come across it!so if this is it then I am there and will continue! But if I am made to Deliver more then I will not hesitate to GO AHEAD AND give it more than my 100%.
I think u should stay at home and take care of your family and children: (Funny but true!)
- .MY HUBBY, MY CHILD AND BEAUTIFUL FAMILY
- MY SMILE AND MY EXISTENCE
- MY FRIENDS
- MY PEACE AND BREATH
- EACH DAY AND A NEW CHANCE TO BEGIN AGAIN !!
Me: “Actually, I loved the last one. Each day and a new chance to begin with. This is what I have learned so long and that far, if you don’t have anything to look forward to, you are going to die soon. The fact itself is threatening and that means you have started dying from within. The simplest definition of happiness that I know is, “PROGRESS”. If you are not growing, you are dying.
EVERYTHING IN MY LIFE MARATHON, BUNGEE JUMPING, WALKING ON TALLEST GLASS OVER BUILDING, SCUBA DIVING.
SPEND IT WITH ALL WHO LOVE ME ..BRING THEM UNDER A ROOF AND MAKE IT THE BEST DAY OF THEIR LIFE, DONATE THINGS TO NEEDY AND SPREAD AS MANY SMILES WITH PEOPLE I COME ACROSS!
I am planning to create a platform for training and niche area for myself in Women empowerment!Writing a book will be on my list along….The Name keeps Guessing.That’s the surprise (and I actually don’t worry about what others do but inspires me when they do something which is on similar lines)
“No idea…Hehehe ..Loved to be an actress though as many say I have a photogenic face…
The title would be something similar to, Manchali CHULBULI Raina or LADY of her Dreams.”
Me: “And… what message should it convey?”
“IT ALWAYS ABOUT THE FIRST STEP!”
(Or do you have a favorite failure of yours?)
Yes ..WHEN I BEING AT WORK AND EDUCATED HAD TO STAY BACK HOME FOR ALMOST 5 YEARS BUT THE BEST THING IS I always found something to keep me busy and creative —my talent which I have plenty in number! I am too adventurous to be wondering about failures!ALL Failures are new stepping stones to go ahead n charge to attain more success!You are AWESOME AND U HAVE THE POWER U CAN DO IT! IS WHAT MY MIND ALWAYS SAYS!
What have you changed your mind about in the last few years? Why?
I have changed my mind to be financially more knowledgeable, never to stop by difficulties, learn test and try new things and take more time but master them(social media expert)! Never to depend on anyone for anything… be self-attainable! Show the true power to do anything and u shall achieve.. JUST TAKE ACTION
educating all children who are needy and poor cause then they will become capable to create their own choice of future! Girl power more cause I am already with 4 Ngo associations SHIKSHA FOUNDATION FOR GIRL, UMEED, SKILL INDIA and AMP.
I don’t read much but I do like reading T Harv Eker, John Maxwell and the latest I read was The Power of Habit–Charles Duhigg. it helps to impact lives and compel of that change which we are not able to make in our lives …The success of our life lies in our habits and the routine in which something needs to be changed to attain the destination goal!
Investment of all the above on education and on anything I do I believe never goes a waste! It’s always an asset.
What’s the worst advice you see or hear in your trade or area of expertise?
Why do u want to do women empowerment? Why don’t u do something else? Someone else is doing for so many years what will u do now? go and take up a fulltime job, that’s more secure.
A champion is someone who gets up when he can’t!!
Don’t Quit… Suffer Now and live the Rest of your life like a champion!
You are the power! GOD WILL SHOW YOU THE WAY When no one is nearby.
Little known fact about you?
I am a great dancer.
Rapid Fire Questions:
most favorite movie?
- Special 26,
- HARRY POTTER SERIES,
- MAZE RUNNER,
- Lord of the rings,
- Animation movies and science fiction
From my hubby —he loves gifting me books
DALE CARNEGIE BOOKS- How to stop worrying and start living, how to win friends, & many more
Enjoy life and do all the best things u can dream of ..but don’t let age stop u from doing it ..it’s all in the mind! Live like its your last or your first at it!
- You can heal your life,
- The great alone
- My husband.
- Tony Robbins
- My Husband,
- My child &
- My thoughts
mp3 player / digital photo frame
What are u doing with your time, why are u not spending time with yourself?
Core beliefs to live by:
- Identify your problems but always use your energy and time on solutions.
- Don’t try to be perfect just be an excellent human being.
- When ur grateful Fear disappears and faith and abundance appears.
- There’s no such thing as failure only Results and learning.
- Have Belief on no one except yourself !Success only comes… If u do what you’ve always done …You will get what you’ve always Gotten!!
What’s something you believe that other people think is crazy?
I want to be speaking in front of 1 crore people and empowering them
“Little more patience and understanding with people. More reading ability.”
Beautiful world with only happiness all around.
“If u want anything done ask a woman! She has the power and creativity to make the impossible possible.”
I am ambitious, I am sweet, I am tough and I am alone yet I Stand bold, Yet I will stand strong cause I know exactly what I want…
IF THAT MAKES ME BAD IN A FEW FACES ..THAT’S PERFECTLY OKAY!
“Live life what you want and dream big and make it happen… its only in your mind and hand Happiness is to enjoy the present and have no apprehensions or self talk on past or future.”
What did you learn from it?
Share your learnings in the comment section below!